Hurt People Hurt People

Hurt People Hurt People We’ve all heard it said or seen it on someones Instagram story. We probably shared it Sarah let’s be self aware here. Okay you probably seen me share it on my Instagram story. I thought it was one of those sayings that I could use to justify my shitty actions becauseContinue reading “Hurt People Hurt People”

People Pleasing Pleases No One

I’m a people pleaser. I will try and accommodate other people to try make my life easier. I make myself feel uncomfortable to make others comfortable. The past few years I’ve learned people pleasing isn’t a good thing. It’s not good for me and it’s actually not good for other people. We are trying toContinue reading “People Pleasing Pleases No One”

Lets break down breaking down

Breaking down makes you whole.  Well that’s what Miss Sarahtonin tells me, trying to reassure me that when I feel bad, bad things do not define my life. Things happen in life that seem like they have no rhyme nor reason to. Family members get sick, relationships fail, finances become overwhelming. A lot of thingsContinue reading “Lets break down breaking down”

Sibling love

“Are you really going to forget about me?” Miss Sarahtonin likes to ask me frequently. “No! I’m just really busy, you know this” I lie. Coming out of lockdown back into what is now our new normal I’ve been neglecting my blog. I can now officially say I’m a blogger because I’ve started a blogContinue reading “Sibling love”

The Good, The Bad and The Socials

I wanted to write a post about the negative side of social media because I have been left feeling bad about myself during lockdown, something I attributed to social media use. However, following the increase of online activism in the wake of the resurgence of visibility of the Black Lives Matter movement, I couldn’t bringContinue reading “The Good, The Bad and The Socials”